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Friday, May 4, 2012

Trip Down Memory Lane

Today I completed my undergraduate studies at Auburn University.  This morning, while I was attempting to study, I started thinking about the many things I have learned through 18 years of school.

In kindergarden, I learned that I can relate to adults fairly easily, even as a five year old.  My kindergarden teacher, Mrs. Bailey, use to let me stay up during nap time and talk to her, color drawings, and even pull some teeth.

In first grade, Mrs. Reid taught me how to write.  My handwriting to this day is because of her.  Lower case letters below the dotted line, capital letter to the top of the paper (that's when we were allowed to use handwriting lines).

In second grade, Mrs. Riggins taught me how to make school fun.  School wasn't just about reading and math you can learn about how the world was created.  She was always dressed to a tee and knew exactly how to have fun.

Third grade was probably my favorite grade.  It was my last grade in Golden Springs and I had the coolest teacher, Mrs. Upchurch.  Third grade I cut my hair extremely short (like above my ears short), had a retainer, and wore dresses.  So it was my awkward stage, but little did I know what middle school would bring.

In fourth grade, I had to make all new friends and thanks to gymnastics I already had some friends that I knew that would be in my class.  I wouldn't have made it through that grade without them.  In fourth grade Mrs. Beshears helped my reading level sky rocket, well from below average to where it should have been all along.  This is the year I realized I liked to write.  We had a journal that we were required to write in once a day at school.  I guess I've kept that habit because I still keep a handwritten journal.

Oh fifth grade, the best class ever, as Mrs. Holcomb would say! I was a little confused when it came to what school to root for but in the end I saw the light ;) Mrs. Poore (now) helped me understand science just a little more and made me really interested in other subjects besides math.

Sixth grade was the year of change.  I moved to the middle school where boys were cute and the walls were blue.  Classes changed every period and I had a different teacher for ever subject.  Mrs. Moore helped me in science, Mrs. Graham with math, and Mr. Berry (who gave me the nickname KP) helped me in social studies.  I had my first group of girlfriends, my first boyfriend, and my first nickname.  I joined the youth group at church and made even more friends.  School was becoming a lot more fun because there was more to do after school than just homework.  I tried out for cheerleading, took piano, and did numerous activities at church.  I guess my interpersonal skills started to develop then.

Seventh and eighth grade was the beginning of my trouble years.  As much as I wish I could take back some of the things I put my parents through, in the end, I guess I really learned.  Cheerleading was my life and boys came second, friends third, and classes last.  My perfect grades through elementary school began to slip and so did some of my friends.  I started learning life lessons whether I really learned them that year or not.

High school came and went and couldn't have gone fast enough.  The first two years were a joy and then my best friends graduated.  I was left to conquer the school with just my grade and I wasn't ready for it.  I stayed in cheerleading (thanks to my parents).  If I wouldn't have stayed in cheerleading I would be a lot worse off.  My parents kept me as grounded as they could while I still had a rebel streak to prove.  Senior year was a year where I learned who people truly were and what little these last four years meant for my life.

Then freshmen year came at Auburn.  I moved completely on from my high school experiences and picked up with my old self.  I made great friends who helped me survive these last four years.  I had a boyfriend that held me back but soon got rid of him before my sophomore year could be ruined.

Sophomore year through this last year have been an absolute blessing.  I have learned so many things about myself, life, and other people.  This world is so much bigger than the first 18 years of your life.  They are like a building block for the next four years of college and on.  I cannot thank my parents enough for raising me the way they did.  I learned so much from them and the role models they set for me.  I can't thank my college friends enough for showing me what true friends are and how everyone is different.  Lastly, I can't thank my boyfriend enough for the lessons he has taught me in the last two years.  It has been a blessing to come to the plains and learn so much from so many different people.

I hope that these last 18 years of school and 22 years of life have prepared me for what's ahead.  I have big goals and dreams set for myself.  I was taught at a young age to never give up on what you want and that's what I plan on doing for the rest of my life.  Even without school, I know I will continue to learn everyday.  You can never have too much knowledge as my dear friend Morgan says.  Thank you to all the people who supported me throughout my building block years.  I hope I can go into the world and make you all proud but most importantly live up to my hopes and dreams.

Friday, May 27, 2011

Looking Back

WOW, how time flies.  My sister is officially a senior in high school.  Ryan has finished his freshman year and I will be looking for real jobs in less than a year.  I feel like it was just yesterday we were all playing in the streets with Logan until 8pm when Mom would yell at us to come in.  (GOOD TIMES!)

Now that I have been in college for almost four years and I have had the amazing opportunity to help transfer students get acquainted with Auburn and helped Freshman students figure out what classes they should take to help them succeed in the next four years, I've had some time to reflect on how much I wish I would have known and figure out just how much I have learned.

Coming into Auburn I really wish I would have known just how fast those four years really go.  People always tell you, "It will be here before you know it" but you really have no idea how fast it sneaks up on you.  Even though I still have one more year left, I just keep thinking about how fast these last three went by and I know this year is going to go even faster.  And with the time flying by so fast, you really have to enjoy every minute of it.  For the most part, I feel like I've done that.  I did things I never thought I would do and I learned so much about myself in the passing time.  I tried out for numerous clubs my freshman year with unsuccessful attempts.  I died my hair on numerous occasions with my first best friend at Auburn, Morgan.  I joined a sorority which I never thought I would do but I met the most amazing girls and I do not know where I would be without them.

Doing all these things taught me a lot about myself.  People can tell you who you are all the time but you won't truly know who you are until you do things for yourself.  Do things that make you uncomfortable (but that you know are moral, lol).  Do not NOT do something because a significant other things you shouldn't do it.  If they really love you they will support you with whatever decision you make.  Take advantage of every opportunity placed in front of you because you never know what the future may hold.

Coming into freshman year, I thought I knew everything (on the outside) but really I didn't know a thing.  The year from graduating high school to ending freshman year made me realize just how much I really did not know.  Ask for help, get to know your professors (they will help you get jobs! They know people!), get involved, study but do not turn down the opportunities to go places with friends, and most importantly do not forget who you are.  First off, learn who you are and then stay true to yourself.  You might find out you are nothing like who you were in high school and that's okay.  I discovered that and I think I'm doing better now that I have could of dreamed for myself to do in high school.

To my sister who is about to start her senior year: Do not live in regret.  Remember that there is a bigger world outside of Oxford, AL! It's huge and there is so much to do and see!

To my brother who is in the midst of a wonderful college career: keep doing what you are doing but do not be afraid to do something out of your comfort zone.  Try new things and enjoy every second of everything you do! You will be a senior before I can blink!

And to all my readers: read this blog again if you ever find yourself not living life to the fullest.  Be happy and do not let things bring you down.  Grudges, fights, bickering, complaining and negativity will not give you what you want.  Stay positive, happy, and smiling.  Even if you are having a rough day, putting a smile on your face will always make it better.

Until Next Time,

Kayla